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How to Add Perserverance To Your New Year’s Resolution

Many of us made a healthy New Year’s resolution; maybe to lose weight, quit smoking, drink less or workout more. Unfortunately by mid January more than 95% of New Years resolutions will be abandoned. So what can you do to make this year different than last year’s failed attempt at change?

First you must be honest, with yourself. If you don’t have the courage to ask yourself “Where do I need to change?” and then break the barrier of pride to make that change you are setting yourself up for failure. If you’re not sure what you need to change to achieve success are you willing to ask a coach or the people closest to you, “Where do I need to change?”

Once you’ve set your resolution to change take starting measurements and do a behavior assessment on day one to honestly evaluate where you are and know what you need to do. This is an important step because you can only manage what you measure. If you don’t know the measure of your health, you can’t develop and grow in health. You can only manage what you measure.

Here are some effective strategies to start a resolution any time of year and stay strong when you get the urge to splurge or hit the snooze button instead of the gym.

1. Start with just one thing. If you want to change your lifestyle don’t try to change the whole thing at once. Instead pick one area of your life to change to begin with.

2. Write your goals down and include their due dates to keep you accountable. People who put their goals on paper are up to 86% more likely to achieve them than those who merely think them. It’s also important to record your progress in any goal in a journal. If you’re going to set some health goals or any kind of goal, record your progress throughout the year so you can measure your growth and celebrate your success.

3.Don’t be a loser. Rather than saying ‘I’m going to lose ten pounds’, set behavioral goals like ‘This week I’ll go to the gym three times, take the stairs at work, and bring a healthy lunch every day rather than eating out. Focusing on what you will do rather than what you don’t want gives you an action plan to follow at times when willpower fades.

4. When you feel discouraged, remind yourself how much you’ve accomplished in the past to remind yourself you can achieve anything when you put your mind to it.

5.Treat any failure as a temporary setback rather than a reason to give up altogether. Perseverance is the key to success.

Prime Time IT (Internal Talk)

When you want to achieve optimal fitness success, you need some daily Prime Time to condition your Internal Talk.  What I mean by “prime time” is you need mental preparation time to set your intention for the day and insure your internal talk supports your set goals.

The first thing to do during prime time is identify any self-defeating words or labels you use to describe yourself. These can be words like lazy, fat, or weak. Or they can be limiting belief statements like, “I’m never going to get fit” or “I won’t ever be able to keep up with these healthy habits”, or a very common one, “ I hate my body. “ Dig deep and be honest to discover what self-prophesying internal talk you’ve been trapping yourself with. This step still applies to you even if you’re already fit because we all can create imaginary ceilings that can leave us with “trouble spots” or unconsciously stuck.

Step two is; identify and derail the scenarios that trigger the negative internal talk. For example, if you go to bed saying “ I can’t be a morning person” and you set your workout time to be a six am sweat session, the chances of you fulfilling the self-defeating statement, “I’m never going to get fit” is pretty high. Your subconscious mind is working 24/7, which is why you need some prime time to recondition your intention.

Step three of Prime Time is where you change IT! Changing your internal talk from the thoughts that have been keeping you stuck to ones that perpetuate positive change is how you convince your body to do a workout, even when you don’t “feel” like it.  This can be as simple as replacing the word can’t with can the moment it’s trying to leave your lips. This little swap transforms the statement “ I can’t be a morning person” to “I can be a morning person.” After a couple weeks of Prime Timing your IT, you will build the new positive belief  “I am a morning person.”

If you don’t think such a simple change can create the change you crave, I challenge you to fully commit to applying your new positive self-talk to your daily walk. That’s right walk the talk and refuse to let a bad day change your prime time perspective. Take control of your subconscious and deliberately choose your thoughts. Be intentional with your words and relentless with your actions. Refuse to let your potential life be buried and let your optimized self shine!

The Best Workout For a Crowded Gym

Navigating through the gym during prime time can be a nightmare! This workout is designed to build muscle, burn fat and ensure you won’t have to wait inline for a piece of equipment at the gym.

The only equipment you’ll need is one pair of dumbbells so you won’t even have to change the amount of weight you use as you move from one exercise to the next. As you get stronger week-by-week you can increase the weight of the dumbbells used for the entire workout routine. This routine is designed to take a rest day following the session.

The Workout:  Do 4 sets of 10 reps. Take 60 seconds rest between sets.

Dumbbell Step up: Holding dumbbells at arms length at your side. Stand in front of a step or bench that is high enough that when your foot is on top your knee is bent 90 degrees. Pressing the heel of your foot into the step, push up until your leg is straight and you are standing on one leg at the top of the bench. Lower your body back down to the floor. That’s one rep. Complete 10 reps per leg.

Neutral Grip Dumbbell Row: Grab your dumbbells, bend at the knees and hips, and lower your torso until it’s almost parallel to the floor. Keeping your core abdominals tight and spine neutral, let the dumbbells hang at arm’s length from your shoulders, palms facing behind you. Bend your elbows and pull the dumbbells to the sides of your torso, pause at the top of the range of motion, then slowly lower the dumbbells.

Offset Thumb Grip Dumbbell Curl: Stand with your feet shoulder width apart, engage your core, grab a pair of dumbbells and let them hang at your sides. With your palms facing forward, extended each thumb to touch the outside head of the dumbbell. This forces the biceps brachia to work harder to keep your forearm rotated outward as you curl the weight. Without moving your upper arms, bend your elbows, and curl the dumbbells as close to your shoulder as you can. Pause, then slowly lower the weights back to the starting position.

Alternating Shoulder Press and Twist:  Hold dumbbells next to your shoulders with your elbows bent and palms facing each other. Rotate your torso to the right as you press the dumbbell in your left hand up diagonally, straightening it above your right shoulder. Pivot the left foot and keep your abs braced as you rotate your torso to prevent injury to your lower back. Reverse the movements back to starting position then repeat sequence in the other direction to target your right shoulder.

How to Master Your Weight and Build Health…

…Without Feeling Overwhelmed.

When you think about getting fit, eating healthy or how to find time to work out in your already over stressed day it’s easy to quickly feel overwhelmed.

This is when many people default to fad diets and quick fix promises. Having a perfect exercise and diet plan without applying the principles leaves you full of frustrated wishes.  Having a perfect exercise and diet plan and following it for thirty days, two months or twelve weeks will work until it doesn’t. Then you’re left feeling more frustrated and probably a little heavier than when you started.

You might ask yourself; where do I start? How do I begin? What’s my first step?

You start and finish with your habits.

“First we form habits, then they form us!” Rob Gilbert, Australian chemist

The key to effectively managing your weight is repeating the right things in the right way to achieve the right results. The most effective approach to building the body you desire is to build healthy habits that will equip you with a system to grow above and beyond what you set out to achieve.

The conscious mind gets you started. However it’s the unconscious mind that makes you successful long term. Building healthy routine behaviors that are so natural you don’t need to give them much thought is how to transform your mind and body.

“Weight isn’t the problem it’s a symptom. Weight loss isn’t the solution it’s the outcome of having healthy habits.” MT

We all know fad diets and quick fix promises don’t lead to lasting results. It’s not about changing your whole life overnight. Small changes build big results when you consistently commit to practicing them. Habits are built one thought, decision, and action at a time.

Here is a checklist to help you make a new healthy habit:

  1. Decide on a goal that you would like to achieve for your health.
  2. Choose a simple action that will get you towards your goal, which you can do, on a daily basis.
  3. Plan when and where you will do your chosen action. Be consistent: choose a time and place that you encounter every day of the week.
  4. Every time you encounter that time and place, do the action.
  5. The more you do it, the easier it will be.  Within 10 weeks you should find you are doing it automatically without even having to think about it.
  6. Congratulations, you’ve made a healthy habit!

Your Legs: From Good to Great

Legs are obviously an important body part. First of all, they help us move around and make the most of the life around us. Secondly, they’re prominent features of our overall physique.

With both in mind, walk these four steps to great legs:

Warm it up

Make sure you warm up before doing weighted leg exercises. Getting the blood flowing with a brisk walk or jog on the treadmill for 5-10 minutes with some fascial mobility stretching will get the range of motion primed before your first working set. This approach will help to prevent injury.

Variety Show

There are various muscle groups in the lower body. This means it’s important to vary the type of exercises, foot positioning, reps and sets that you do to stimulate all the muscle fibers and keep your body guessing. For example, when doing squats, place your toes parallel on your first set and then toes out in a plié position to target the hamstrings, glutes, adductors and quads on a different plain for your second set. Muscle development happens by having to adapt to a stimulus so mix it up and you’ll stimulate greater shape to legs.

Recovery

If you want to have nice strong, lean legs, you’ve got to lift heavy and support muscle growth to smooth out and burn access body fat. To do this, you’ve got to have a good nutrition plan to help optimize recovery and shape your results.  A simple 300-400 calorie cutback per day, if needed, can help burn off an extra five pounds in a month and reveal some great leg lines.

HIT the Cardio

When you hit the treadmill, intensify your results by jumping off every 3-5 minutes and do 30-60 seconds of pop squats, scissor lunges or deadlifts for your 3-5 rounds.

When you increase the strength and endurance of your legs, it makes it easier to live a more physically active lifestyle and you burn more calories overall and may indeed be a secret to staying trim.

Decide. Do. Delete.

In your life, it’s up to you to decide what you want to happen. You have that power.

If you want to make things different, you have to make different decisions, do different things and delete old habits.  Just because you are where you are now doesn’t mean that you can’t make changes. Your current situation is the result of choices made up until this point. If you are unhappy with your current weight, fitness level or energy level, you are fully capable of making better choices from this moment onward.  These new choices will lead you toward your optimal weight, health and fitness level.  In fact, you are the only person capable of making the decision to change your ways.

If you take the time to specify what you want to achieve and why, you can then make a plan of attack and apply successful strategies from other areas of your life to strengthen the area in which you want to improve. You can strengthen your willpower through visualization and by reminding yourself regularly of why your goals are important to you.

Changing behavior isn’t easy and positive change rarely happens on a whim. You already know what giving up feels like. I want you to see what happens if you don’t.

The importance of planning your own development will be the key over the coming weeks, months and years. Success will require saying “yes” to any external influences that move you forward in your aims and saying “no” to anyone and anything that will slow you down or lead you off track.

This is where moderation comes into play, not! Moderation might be the most overused word in the entire nutrition and fitness universe because people like the idea of not restricting themself and being able to eat anything they want so long as it’s not “too much.” The problem with moderation is that it’s a fantasy, not a strategy. Without clear boundaries, old habits will always win.

Behavioral research shows that the more specific an action is, the more likely you are to actually do it. So decide what you need to change and be single minded. Focus fully on the chosen behavior and tune into all the opportunities that will take you there quickly. Be consistent with the little things and the big change will happen. Nobody can talk you into your future but you. Don’t let fear talk yourself out of your full potential. If you can talk yourself out of going to the gym or making healthy food choices, you can talk yourself into it. Delete old unhealthy habits by building new healthy ones.

Words only work when you work them. A plan only works when you work it!

10 Habit Hacks to Achieve Healthy Weight Loss

How can you shape or engineer your environment so that maintaining a healthy weight is easier?

You have to put your mind to it, but the good news is that simple changes made to your home or workspace can help make achieving weight loss easier. The key is to surround yourself with nutritious foods and supportive messages while reducing the number of influences that will challenge your commitment to better health. Make these simple adjustments to boost your chances of weight loss success and improve your health:

  1. In the home, get rid of stuff that you’re likely to eat too much of. Overeating is obviously a leading culprit in weight gain.
  2. One step towards improving eating habits is to change the contents of your shopping basket. If you never buy chips, they will not be in the cupboard to tempt you.
  3. Have a snack before a meal, something such as a small serving of protein. This will help you avoid over-indulging later.
  4. Stay away from alcohol before starting a meal. There’s evidence that alcohol stimulates appetite and leads to overeating.
  5. Serve your dinner meal from the stove or counter rather than serving your plate right off the table. Studies show you are likely to eat 19 percent less food with this healthy habit.
  6. Serve salad first rather than bread at mealtime. You’re three times more likely to eat the first food you see than the fifth.
  7. Replace 12-inch plates with 10-inch ones. People tend to eat about 60 extra calories per meal when they eat off of larger plates.
  8. Avoid the TV and Computer When Eating. It’s easy to lose track of what you’ve eaten when you are not paying attention. Try to remove items that will take your focus off of eating, such as the computer or a television at mealtime.
  9. Celebrate your healthy meal by sitting down, relaxing alone or with family. Take the time to slowly enjoy your food. Creating a special mealtime ritual will help you to feel satisfied with the experience of eating. This is better than looking in the cupboard and fridge before mealtimes or snacks to see what is there.
  10. Physical activity is more important for weight maintenance than for weight loss. What matters most for weight loss is controlling calorie intake. However, doing things such as walking to the local market or parking far from the grocery store door will support weight loss by increasing total daily steps and calories burned. Adding daily exercise is the key to improving your mood, protecting against disease. It boosts energy during the day and improves sleep quality at night.

The Peak Performance Creed

Peak performance in life isn’t about succeeding all the time or always being happy. It’s truly about doing the best that you can with what you have right now.

Peak performers are not necessarily the most talented. They just are just more committed to be their best every single day. There will be people that have more talent than you, but there’s no excuse for anyone to work harder than you do. One of the biggest differences between an average athlete and an elite athlete is that the elite “do” what most other athletes “wish” or “hope” for. Continue reading

Get In the “Zone”

You’ve probably heard the phrase “in the zone” or “in the flow.”

Ask any athlete and they will agree that there is nothing more fun in life than being in the zone.

When was the last time you were so focused that time stood still?  When you are so immersed in what you’re doing that you don’t worry about outcomes or distractions. You trust your skills and react without worry, doubt, or fear about results. Continue reading